December 27, 2008
December 18, 2008
and..we share moments and memories, smiles and hi5's, friendship and feelings, etc. with those whom we like..
but there are people whom we find bad.. and i think it is better to keep away from them.. even if they keep interferring in our ways, instead of criticising them outwardly,it is a lot better to ignore their ways.
cos' if there is a problem with someone's attitude and thoughts, the best to do is to be with the ones whose attitudes are likeable enough rather than forcing them to change or criticising them in public.. and this is what we expect from others actually..
also.. maintaining self-discipline is more important than working on a second-person's ways..
well..this writing is just the effect of a "cold" talk which i witnessed among some people today.. :)
December 14, 2008
well this little shock happened to me yesterday (i.e. at 4pm of 13-12-08)when i was sitting in my college bus and waiting for the bus to start from college..i peeped my head outside through the window to see if there are any of my friends nearby to talk to..since i did not see any familiar face.. i planned to sit properly and listen music.. and when i was withdrawing myself from the window gap, the girl who was sitting infront of me opened her side window, closing mine..and she didnt notice me having my head outside..
well easy to picturize the moment rite?? thank goodness, i had my hands on it that the window got blocked..and i escaped with a scratch on the side of my hand and a light hit on the side of my head..
i didnt make it a big issue.. as always..the other said sorry and i smiled and told her to be cautious next time.. cant expect the others to be careful and caring on you all the time..
and anyways..even if that girl is not careful while opening the window next time, i am gonna be.. i just dont wanna scare the hell outta anyone.. that particular moment-fear keeps ringing and vibrating inside the head for some minutes..
December 3, 2008
this is mainly because of the influence it has in one's life and its power to add meaning and purpose to life..
now-a-days the act of categorizing friends, as best, good, close, special, hi-bye, etc. till boyfriend/girlfriend(this i dont understand the presence of the word 'friend' cos it is supposed to mean something different i guess), is common and each has its own characteristics..
this is not anything to be wronged about but..
i think(my view) that sometimes few tend to rule out the basic and simple,yet the important and actual, meaning of friendship when the views of their most-prioritized friendship gets deeper.. and sometimes many tend to forget the main purpose of friendship in their process of setting an example out of it, which is actually unnecessary..
well, i really cant think of any real-time examples of friendship but there is one which many know(which might be fictional or spiritual) which is the friendship between lord krishna and the devotee kuselan.. and the underlying factor of their friendship is the simple faith they had on each other..
and that's what friendship exactly means (to me), trusting each other and accepting them for what they are..
there are certain "mostly-forgotten" factors like, giving space for thoughts and views rather than influencing acts and decisions, sharing and respecting privacy at the same time rather than expecting everything to be shared, really understanding them rather than speaking dialogues,etc..
and things like expectations, possessiveness, doubts,etc dont account for the tag "evergreen-friendship-forever", though it might add to closeness it normally results in coldness and misunderstandings..
the feel of deep and intense friendship is really great and adding unnecessary complexities dosnt go well with the rhythm of friendship..
p.s. the above views are mine..and will ofcourse contradict with many.. just reading and knowing my thought is enough..no need to accept or oppose..
and also..preserve the uniqueness of friendship.. friendship rocks!! :)
October 31, 2008
October 23, 2008
it has nothing to do with the daily schedule or activities. it is totally different..you may be doing different things in different places in altogether different environments but the internal environment in your head(or heart) is the same blank one..
it is based on how i really feel every second, regardless of what i am really doing, be it talking with people or watching tv or chatting online or etc..but the silence or blankness inside is the same and never-changing..
well..i am not sure whether it is due to boredom or difficulties in life..whether it is supposed to be positive or nogative or even neutral..and also what it feel really is..
null..void..blank..constant..isolation..empty..are the words for it..
by the way..what does the word "it" specify throughout the post???? :O :P
September 15, 2008
August 25, 2008
August 23, 2008
from the start of my schooling i hav ths study sessions at home during exam times..my parents r pretty strict about studies..they wont force me to study daily but during exams t was not like tht..got to finish the portions within the specified time..
wel..i was doing ths detail type of answer(just 5 lines) for the tamil exam next day..i was trying my best to get t into my head but i jus cudn do t..so i planned to escape 4m ths..
i pretended to sleep on my table so tht mom wud tel me to go to bed..
instead i got a tight sound slap..
10mins later, i was n my bed..finished and revisied the answer properly..
on tht day..i understood one thing..no compromise on studies..
am not the studious person..always the topper of the class..
but during exams i manage to study enough tht wud get me sum average-to-above average marks..and ths credit totally goes to tht slap and my mom who gav tht..
ofcourse.. it is because of the person's view of life and attitude towards it that makes them face so many different situations and acquire wide range of experiences consequently.. and experiences r not jus mistakes and lessons..t s the main factor that builds up the character and focusses the thoughts..
and..wen u keep ur mind open n those moments,be t gud or bad..u learn a lot of things tht cudnt be taught by any of the renowned books or workshops.. thts wat life s all about..learn and live..
i ll mention sum of my past nd present experiences..t may not b exciting or important or sumthing gr8 nd adventurous.. but still..these r the ones tht made me and still making me a person i am now..